I am always looking for new ideas for my kitchen. Whether it is a new recipe or a new appliance, I just love using new gadgets and learning how to use new things. I find all the new “smart” appliances intriguing. We used to joke that with slow cookers you could just set it and forget it. Now you have appliances where you use an app on your phone while you are at work to turn it on and/or change the cooking functions.
When I was younger, my dad would say, “now there is someone with ‘smarts’”. Of course as a child I had no idea what he was talking about. As I grew older, I began to realize what he meant. It’s interesting now, we used to have smart people and now we have smart appliances.
The reality is that I am in love with smart products and I find myself using them more and more. The one thing I have found is that I am now expecting to change things with just a push of a button. This has become the standard that I am seeing with everyone. As we shop in stores we become frustrated so we go online and push a button. I find myself getting annoyed waiting in line so I go to the self checkout. Yes, faster. I push the buttons and make things happen.
As of late I have taken notice to how isolating that has become. As much as I enjoy pushing buttons and not having to wait in line, I have found that I am missing out on opportunities that God could be sending my way.
Our family is the type that as we stand in line at Walmart, random people will talk to us about anything. We could almost tell you their bank account number by the time we get done talking with them.
All in all, the “smart” things in life are not the problem. It’s us who forget to put them down and use the smarts that God has given us. We need to pick up the Bible and read his word. Gain the wisdom that is needed to share with others, to minister to them. Yes, this means we can’t just push a button and make things happen. It means that we need to invest in one on one conversation and share part of our lives.
Take the challenge today to put the device down and reach out to someone. Use your wisdom and the things the Lord has taught you to invest in one life today.
Lynn A. C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
My husband and I have been talking more and more of late about having just a fresh start in life. So many times we get down, by the things we should’ve done, didn’t do or should do better. Attitude has a lot to do with how we perceive things and our attitude can drastically change our perspective.
So my husband and I have decided to sit down over the next 52 weeks and make some changes in our life. Nothing that drastic, nothing so miraculous that it will change the world… but what it will do is change our lives and how we look and view life.
The 52 week challenge of 2020 will be as simple as this. Each week on a Tuesday I will post here on the blog, also on Instagram and Facebook what our challenges are that we have chosen to do for that up-and-coming week. Feel free to take on the same challenges as us or come up with your own. We may not always meet that challenge… and that’s OK. The whole point of this is to make a difference in our lives. It’s to make a better you. It’s just a start fresh and recharge in life.
At the end of 52 weeks… We can look back and honestly tell ourselves that we tried new things, we face challenges, we set out to make a difference. Again whether all of those challenges were met exactly to perfection or not is not the point. But at the end of 52 weeks the point is that we are two better people because of having tried.
Our challenge for each other this week is called the “take 5”. We have challenged each other for this week to come up with five things over the next year we want to learn that we have been putting off for years. Graeme and I each need to come up with five different things that we want to either learn or experience. You might think five things are too simple… but when you add that to a full plate already …those five things will be a challenge in itself.
Come follow us on our journey as we begin the 52 week challenge as well as trying out five new things in this up-and-coming year.
Comment below if you dare to take the 52 week challenge 2020. Let me know what some of your challenges might be or if you’re going to follow along with the challenges that we put in front of ourselves. I would love to hear from you!
Lynn A. C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother￼￼￼￼￼￼
More Action Less Talk
Impacting someone’s life has been on my mind this past year. I have been blessed over the years to have someone come along side me many times and touch my life in unique ways. I say unique because every time they touched my life it was at a time where I knew it was a divine appointment. It was the exact thing I needed at that time.
I have a friend who read me the story of the one starfish. I googled it, here is a copy of the story:
The Starfish Story
A young man is walking along the ocean and sees a beach on which thousands and thousands of starfish have washed ashore. Further along he sees an old man, walking slowly and stopping often, picking up one starfish after another and tossing each one gently into the ocean. “Why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?,” he asks. “Because the sun is up and the tide is going out and if I don’t throw them further in they will die.” “But, old man, don’t you realize there are miles and miles of beach and starfish all along it! You can’t possibly save them all, you can’t even save one-tenth of them. In fact, even if you work all day, your efforts won’t make any difference at all.” The old man listened calmly and then bent down to pick up another starfish and threw it into the sea. “It made a difference to that one.”
She read this at our Bible study to encourage us to impact a life. Another divine appointment since I have been thinking about making a change in my life to be an impact!
I have a friend that loves to talk. She is very intelligent, knows a lot, and loves to talk about it. She is in the medical field, she crafts, she is a planner, she travels, cooks, sews, and does so much more. Like I said, she is very intelligent. But with all that she knows and can do, she talks way more than she does for others.
I have other people in my life, including myself, who might not be as book smart, but live their life in a smart way. They are always looking for opportunities to share in someone’s life. They are looking for a way to impact and encourage someone.
I want to make this year the year I reach out and touch a life. I want to impact those around me so that they feel encouraged, not alone, and feel like they had a divine appointment.
I have created a list of ways that I plan on doing this. I have used my gift of hospitality in the past years, and I honestly have slacked off in this area.
Just the other day, I had someone message me on Facebook who I have not seen in about 10 years. She remembered a seminar I taught on hospitality where I shared about having tea in our home with very little money. She is now setting up her home, and remembered what I shared. She is now starting tea in her home. Here is one life that I touched and she is now in turn touching others.
My personal mission statement for years has been to touch one life that will in turn touch another. I guess this proves that it works!
How do you impact lives? Have you been slacking off like me? How do you plan to jump back into it?
I will be blogging my up and coming teas and other events, where I hope to encourage you with how I am working on impacting lives.
Lynn A.C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
Touching one life that in turn will touch another’s.
So according to Wikipedia here is what 2020 is;
2020 (MMXX) is the current year, and is a leap year starting on Wednesday of the Gregorian calendar, the 2020th year of the Common Era (CE) and Anno Domini (AD) designations, the 20th year of the 3rd millennium, the 20th year of the 21st century, and the 1st year of the 2020s decade.
I don’t know if you want to view this as a new year, a new decade, or something else. But how about a fresh new start? So many times we get “stuck” in stuff. I find myself so stuck at times that I can hardly move. Yet I really don’t know how I got there.
For today, I am declaring a fresh start and starting over in many areas of my life. I am giving the grace that I need to forgive myself and move forward. For today I will use the saying that my mom used to tell me, ”today is the first day of the rest of your life.”
Come and join me on my new adventure of a fresh start. Here are some of the areas that I want to start fresh in:
- Reading – I need to read more and be consistent.
- My marriage – I love my husband, but I feel like I have let things get stale, so I need to be the one to make a change.
- More boldness – I need to allow myself to just be me and do what I know I have been called to do, without worrying about what others think of me.
Three is a good place to start. Too many things would overwhelm me. Let me know in the comments below what you want to recharge and refresh in your life. I would be very interested to see what you all want to change.
Lynn A.C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
Self-care – 10 fresh start tips to make your day even more special
- Take five to ten minutes each day just for you. Paint your toenails, use a new face mask, or try a new ice cream.
- Write yourself a love letter – take five minutes each day to write in a journal or on a note card and list one thing that you know you are good at. By the end of the year you will be amazed at how wonderful you are and how beautifully you have been created.
- Take five minutes today to call a friend and share an encouraging word with them. By giving to someone else, you will lift your own spirits.
- Take five to ten minutes and do some stretching exercises. It will make you more limber and help clear your head.
- Take a five to ten minute walk, even if it’s up and down your driveway. Allow yourself to breath deep and remember that you are breathing life into yourself.
- Take five minutes a day to look up a Bible verse for words of encouragement that you can claim and hold fast to.
- Take five to ten minutes and make yourself a fun breakfast of blueberry pancakes, oatmeal with fresh fruit, or something else delicious that you don’t normally treat yourself to. Remember you are worth the extra treats!
- In the evening take five to ten minutes to allow yourself to indulge in a new hobby. Start crochet or a needlepoint project.
- Close your eyes and listen to the sounds around you. Enjoy the fact that you are alive today.
- As hard as this is (and no one is watching but you), stand in front of a mirror and talk out loud to yourself. Repeat the following every once in awhile :
- I have been fearfully and wonderfully made.
- I have been chosen.
- I am worth it.
At first you will laugh at yourself awkwardly. Then you might shed a tear or two and question these statements. After a while, a fresh start and recharge along with some self-care will have you amazed at how bold you have become, and you will learn to believe these statements and repeat them to yourself.
We are a homeschooled family and love to learn new ways of teaching just about anything. Having someone with special needs and teaching them has been interesting and also challenging at times!!!! One of the uniquenesses that our son has (or as we like to call them) is Autism and ADHD. Now he also has a few other uniqueness….and roll them all together and you never quite know what you will have when you try to teach him.
Trying to teach the simplest things can be a big hurdle and we need to look around and always find new and different ways to approach things.
Our one goal has been as he gets closer to adult age is basic life skills. How can he function the best he can in the “real” world as he get older? When he wants to be with his friends….how can he maintain as “normal” of a life as he can? What can we do to assist him in learning how to feel like he can fit in?
We needed to make a list of areas in life where we needed to help him fit in the best he could. One area we thought of would be when he goes to a restaurant. I think we take things for granted and just maybe assume that reading and understanding a menu is the “norm”. Well in fact I found out that it is not. So in my search around I actually found math workbooks called “menu math” and we just love them!!!
Real life math…..with real life restaurant menus, it doesn’t get better than this. We choose places that we frequent to make this as real and normal as we could. Chick-Fil-A, MacDonald’s etc.…. here a few samples of what we choose below. Stay tuned as to how we apply these in our homeschooling in my next blog.
Here are a few links to some places where I was able to purchase some great “menu math”… Let me know if you find any other great resources in the comments below.
Lynn A. C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
What an amazing night… What an amazing event! How many of you have someone with some type special needs and long for them to have a typical night like any other teenager could have such as a prom night? Tim Tebow foundation has created an event for people with special needs to have a prom like event for them to feel special for one night… and for them to “shine”!!!!
We were absolutely amazed at the organization, presentation, and variety of events put together in one evening. We arrived to find that girls were getting their hair, nails and make up done… while the boys were getting their shoes shined and their hair touched up. From there they went and met up with a buddy that they would have for the evening to keep them company. Then on to the horse and buggy carriage ride, and then to ride in a limousine! Once they departed from the limousine they were escorted to a red carpet where there were volunteers lined up on the carpet to root them on and cheer them on and take pictures. As our son said “I felt like a movie star”!!
Then they entered the gala… with white twinkling lights, beautiful tables decorated, a DJ, and I wonderful meal provided by Chick Fil A!
They could dance all night, they could be with their friends all night, they could feel as special as any other person ever felt on a prom night.
The final event… Would be to gather all the people with special needs and their buddies… They would be prayed over, and then everybody was crowned king and or queen of the prom with a beautiful crown or tiara.
No one was left behind and no one was left out during this beautiful moment. Everybody felt like they shined for this one special evening… our son came home feeling like he was worth something so special!!! This is one night he will never forget for the rest of his life!
Lynn A. C. Wilson– Resume of a Mother
Well we are here and sitting at a museum with about 200+ Autistic kids and their families. WOW!!!!! This is an adventure to be with so many family and now friends that we have made.
It amazes me while I sit and watch the differences in each individual who has autism or on the spectrum! My son for example has changed so much that next to most of these kids he almost seems average. There are families with kids having meltdowns of all ages. Kids wearing head phones to lighten the sounds and other kids walking in circles or having stemming issues. But all in all to watch all these levels get along and come along side of each other with NO JUDGEMENT!!!!!
YES… I said no JUDGEMENT!!! Just the other day I had someone tell me point blank to “put him on a diet”. My son is far from needing a diet….his only thing is …is that he is tall. Then only a few days later I have someone tell him right to his face “did your head fall in a bucket of paint”. Yes he tinted the top of his hair red… and I ask you where is the crime in that?
What a JOY to be part of this awesome support group here in New Jersey!! We have been part of this group for about 5 years now. Some of the events have a charge and some are FREE like this one tonight.
Tonight our kids can run free through the hands on museum designed with sensory play stations of all kinds. From a restaurant to a climbing wall, a TV station to a doctors office, a pet shop to a nature center.
Our sons favorite is the basketball and dinosaur room.
If you are not part of a support group you need to be!!!
Lynn A. C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
Many people are misinformed and have a distorted view of Autism, disabilities, and what can be achieved! We have told our son he can do anything he wants… he might need to do it in a different way, but he can do it!
We are blessed here in New Jersey with several organizations that help people with disabilities and Autism. We have an organization called POAC, NJ Autism Warriors and organization that has come to New Jersey for this event in particular called “Walk on water”.
This day was created entirely for people with Autism and disabilities to have the freedom to feel the Atlantic Ocean surround them… to allow them to learn how to surf with a professional by their side… and to allow them to have the opportunity to know that they can do anything when they put their mind to it.
I have personally never surfed, but I have a few friends who have, and they said that there is nothing like riding a wave and the freedom it allows you to feel.
These kids were blessed one by one with riding the wave, winning an award, having a day set aside just for them and the list goes and on.
For one day they felt like they could be like everyone else. For one day they could feel proud. For one day they could feel like they were “all that”.
We were blessed to have such a special and awesome day for our family!!!