My husband and I have been talking more and more of late about having just a fresh start in life. So many times we get down, by the things we should’ve done, didn’t do or should do better. Attitude has a lot to do with how we perceive things and our attitude can drastically change our perspective.
So my husband and I have decided to sit down over the next 52 weeks and make some changes in our life. Nothing that drastic, nothing so miraculous that it will change the world… but what it will do is change our lives and how we look and view life.
The 52 week challenge of 2020 will be as simple as this. Each week on a Tuesday I will post here on the blog, also on Instagram and Facebook what our challenges are that we have chosen to do for that up-and-coming week. Feel free to take on the same challenges as us or come up with your own. We may not always meet that challenge… and that’s OK. The whole point of this is to make a difference in our lives. It’s to make a better you. It’s just a start fresh and recharge in life.
At the end of 52 weeks… We can look back and honestly tell ourselves that we tried new things, we face challenges, we set out to make a difference. Again whether all of those challenges were met exactly to perfection or not is not the point. But at the end of 52 weeks the point is that we are two better people because of having tried.
Our challenge for each other this week is called the “take 5”. We have challenged each other for this week to come up with five things over the next year we want to learn that we have been putting off for years. Graeme and I each need to come up with five different things that we want to either learn or experience. You might think five things are too simple… but when you add that to a full plate already …those five things will be a challenge in itself.
Come follow us on our journey as we begin the 52 week challenge as well as trying out five new things in this up-and-coming year.
Comment below if you dare to take the 52 week challenge 2020. Let me know what some of your challenges might be or if you’re going to follow along with the challenges that we put in front of ourselves. I would love to hear from you!
Lynn A. C. Wilson – Resume of a Mother￼￼￼￼￼￼
Well it is “Planner Tuesday”! This will be a simple post….as simple as, “I love Frixion pens”. I first saw these pens on a You-Tube channel. I had never heard of them and I was intrigued with having an erasable pen for my planner.
I just had to find them right away…so where else would I look but Amazon Prime. Sure enough I found them, and I was able to get them in many different colors.
I am not a big color coder in my planner; I found that using too many colors can be confusing for me. I do however use red for family, blue for work and green for anything unusual. (KISS – Keep it simple). But there are lots of choices that you can choose from if you do like to color code.
With my crazy busy life…..my planner keeps me in check and sain. But now that I have erasable pens to match my ever changing schedule. So when life changes as it does, I can just erase and reschedule.
What is your favorite pen for your planner?
Lynn A. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
I know from being in the planner community that “Planner Peace “is what we strive for. I laugh when I hear people so satisfied with only 1 planner and talk about it as if they have died and gone to heaven. Not me….l LOVE all types!
I started with a Filofax Malden and Yes it is still my first love. Then I moved to an A5 and I loved the size for writing and recording, but it was too big to carry. So I tried a Travelers Notebook for a year, but found it was too confusing for me with all the notebooks. A TN is great to journal in but I don’t like it as a planner. So I went back back to a personal size and I love the size for carrying around in my bag….but, yes it happened again that I needed more room to write. So you guessed it back to an A5.
So today is the day I waiting with excitement, anticipation and overwhelming JOY for the arrival of a new planner. After touching it a few times, smelling it and holding it tight. I then turned each page like it was the first time I ever owned a planner. Do you find yourself doing the same thing and switching it up?
Oh the JOY of watching for the box to come…opening the box…looking into the box….grabbing the planner…and then opening it. So many wonderful feelings all rolled up in one! So here is goes, the unboxing and my new planner for at least a while. More details to come with what I am doing with my other planners too.
Watch for “Planner Tuesday”….where I will chat with you about my planners, planner goodies, planner ideas, layouts, and more.
Send me your what your favorite planner is and why in the comments below!
Lynn A. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
I always like watching and learning from others. Whether it be from reading a book they wrote, a You-Tube video, some hands- on training or what have you. I want to know what worked for them and where they started from so that I can see how that fits where I am in life.
When I first was married and starting my family, I read the book “More Hours in my Day” by Emily Barnes. Her insight was right where I was at. I needed step by step instructions as to how to set up my home, how to create a chore list for my kids and so on. Her organizational skills amazed me! She even has a section on how to organize your pocketbook, which I still use to this day…30 years later.
As in anything you evolve and adapt to where life has you now….so fast forward 30 years and where I am today is a little different. I used Emily Barne’s card file system for years for cleaning. But now I need something a little simpler and updated.
You-tube has become my best friend for info, and some of the people I follow I consider my friends. I would love to meet them in person someday, and thank them for all the tips they have given me!
When I was looking to update my cleaning schedule and make it a little simpler for me and our life style now, I found some tips on You-Tube. “Andrea Mills” and “Parsnips and Parsimony”, are two families on You-Tube that I follow and LOVE… and I can really relate to. I have taken things they have shared and created a new system for a cleaning routine for me.
Here are some of the charts and things that I now use. Maybe you will find that they will help you put together a new system for yourself too.
The first one is a chart for a 30 day cleaning challenge. Each day of the month from the 1st to the 30th, there is a special area to bring my attention too.
The second chart is my daily/weekly cleaning schedule for routine items.
Let me know in the comments below how you set up your home and cleaning routines. I would love to hear from you and maybe even learn from you too. Also, tell me who you like to watch on You-tube!
Lynn A. Wilson – Resume of a Mother
What does this mean to you? Minimalism comes to my mind. So many of the younger generation are going this way. Many of them have watched their grandparents and parents collect things over the years so they now have taken up with the new trend of “less” is better.
I do find that the old saying…“less is more”, can be true! But what is less? I have watched some “extreme” shows, where they will have a beautiful “large” house and only have a mattress on the floor, 1 dish, 1 cup, 1 fork…you get the picture and they seem truly seem happy. This is not the life that I want.
I have a friend who LOVES to collect things…did I say loves it. She collects any and everything that you could imagine. She has now gone through her collection and resized it. To most people…you would still say that she has a lot of “stuff” but to her …she has simplified her life in her own way with her collections and she is a happy girl.
In my life…which is full of special needs and most days cioas….I need “my” type of simple. Let me explain. My husband has Epilepsy and my youngest son as Autism…..for me this changes my life on a daily basis. I have always enjoyed a full schedule of events, lots of involvement in family, work, church and life in general. I like lots of hobbies, things, stuff, and decor in my home etc…I like to enjoy life as I see it….but then life doesn’t alway fit what I like!!!
Recently in my home….I have had to simplify things. Less stuff, less things and to be more practical and less nostalgic. This has been very hard for me but as I get into it …it does becoming easier. I need to create a very practical world for my two men. I need to label where things go in the refrigerator and label whose jacket goes where etc… And yet find a way to make my home still seem special and pretty to me and our guests we invite over.
Recently with my schedule….I have had to simplify that too. How do you take a girl who LOVES a full schedule and adapt it to “SIMPLE” one…so that I meet the needs of my family as well as myself. I have and am still learning how to balance life ….I really don’t know how to explain that in words with exactly I am doing. I probably need to do a VLOG on a day in the life of me.
This might not be “minimalism” to some, but for me I need to carry a planner, snacks, change of cloths, meds, water, essential oils, band aids etc… in many different bags. I have a travel bag, pocketbook, workbag, church bag etc…each one is filled with what I would need for that event and the extras for that “just in case I need it” moment. This works for me….my car is full of bags stuffed with stuff. But all this stuff to me equals an organized, simplified and simple way of living. To me my life is now not full of stressful moments and I don’t have to think as much when life takes over and craziness begins. If you have anyone in your family with special needs you would understand. We never quite know what’s going to happen at a given moment and having these extras with us at all times and organized in designated bags for that particular event definitely helps.
Simple is defined by YOU and only you. We should not jump on a trend just because!!! Yes, we should evaluate our lives and simplify them… but this does not mean throw everything out that you own, and live in a sleeping bag.
God has given and blessed our family many times over with things and not necessarily money…I need to use what I have, simplify what I buy and sometimes bless others with my overflow.
Remember to enjoy life and where life has you. I know that this is a unique way of looking a “simple life” but it is the way I do it. How do you do it..leave a comment below.
Lynn A. Wilson – Resume of a Mother